Day off!

Feb. 16th, 2009 10:26 am
nonionay: (wwjd)
[personal profile] nonionay
Thanks to Presidents Day, I actually get a day off to recuperate post-con!!
And so, I get to make zillions of posts as I think of them.
And now, something I forgot to mention in my last post. When we stopped for lunch and gas somewhere between Pasco and Yakima, I ran into the convenience store to get batteries for Keffy's radio tuner. The cashier saw my hair sticking out the bottom of my coat and commented admiringly on its length. Behind me, a guy parroted her comment and added, "I'll bet your husband likes to brush it for you. Does he? Does your husband like to brush it?"
I glared, tried to think of something appropriate to say, and cowardly bypassed, "I'm a lesbian," to settle pathetically on, "No comment."
Speaking of long hair and bad social relations, I was waiting for a panel to start, when a guy behind me commented, "you took down one of your braids." Now, Friday, I had my hair in two french braids. Saturday, I put part of it up in my usual octopus clip, and braided two small segments, letting the rest hang loose. It was a totally different hairstyle, and I said something to that effect with mild irritation. As I turned back to what I was doing, I realized that guy was probably trying to flirt with me, he wasn't obnoxious or bad-looking, and I should have been quicker on the draw. But by that time, the panel started, and I never got a chance to apologize to him.

Date: 2009-02-16 10:32 pm (UTC)
shadesofmauve: (bitch-princess)
From: [personal profile] shadesofmauve
I would have been totally annoyed about the husband-comment, and I'm hetero. It's just so FULL of blind assumptions! I'd say heteronormative, but apparently the norm is getting married and having a bazillion loin fruit, two things I am NOT planning on.

The fact that I (currently) have a boyfriend who (occasionally) does enjoy brushing my hair is totally irrelevant and NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS.

Do you have people you don't know pet it, too? Grrrr...

Date: 2009-02-16 11:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mimerki.livejournal.com
Do you have people you don't know pet it, too? Grrrr...

Oh gods, those people! I would like to strangle them with it. (Usually it's people I do know but not sufficient that running their hands through my hair without permission is okay.)

Date: 2009-02-17 01:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] criada.livejournal.com
Exactly. Heteronormative.

>>.Do you have people you don't know pet it, too?

I haven't, thank god. I would flip the fuck out if anyone did that.

Date: 2009-02-17 01:25 am (UTC)
shadesofmauve: (Default)
From: [personal profile] shadesofmauve
For some people the 'norm' in 'heteronormative' is more prescriptive than others. I suppose I should thank those people for making me feel so much more comfortable in subcultures and fringe groups, by comparison. :)

Date: 2009-02-17 10:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pussinboots.livejournal.com
I do flip the fuck out when people do it. Now I want to see it happen to you, since I'm curious what your flipping out looks like compared to my flipping out. XD

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